Pretend there was a technology that could adjust what you saw. Pretend you could overlay an image on whatever was in your sight. Pretend you could make your spouse look anyway you wanted. Would you be bad to change how your spouse looked? Would it be bad to make your lover look hot? Would it be bad to make your lover look like another person - a super model, for example?
If technology could change your sight, would you be bad if you changed how your spouse looked?
Interesting question. I have a tendency to agree with the above answer. Honestly, don鈥檛 you do that in your mind anyhow? Lots of men fantasize about being with someone else while they are with their lover, hell fair game for women to do it too. I just think to ACTUALLY change how someone appears in your eyes to look like someone else, without their knowledge, is horribly deceitful. If you spoke to her and told her you wanted to try something new AND were open to her doing the same to you...all good!
If technology could change your sight, would you be bad if you changed how your spouse looked?
Simple answer for this would be based on whether or not she aggree's the changes, and she fully understands the risks involved with such proceedures.
Changing ones looks is enough to drive most people into depression, or some form of regressive aggression. The reason for this is that they have to create themselves an entire new identity, which is why full reconstructive surgery takes place over a LONG period of time, instead of all at one time.
If however, you decided to make these changes without HER consent, yes, you would be considered 'bad' for doing such things. Changing another's identity should be a personal choice, not that of a shared decision, as no matter how close the person is to the one being changed, they can never understand the limitations of the new identity.
